Work With Pallabi
Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship coaching for individuals and couples who wish to (re)turn to intimacy, connection, and pleasure during or after life transitions.
You might consider working with me if…
Life transitions (loss, rupture, grief…) have shifted how intimacy feels, whether by yourself or in a relationship
You feel disconnected from your body, desires, or partner and want to rediscover and explore your intimate needs, desires, and pleasure, but you are not sure where to start
Communication with your partner feels challenging, one-sided, or conflicts revolve around the same topic(s)
Ways to Work Together
In these 50-minute online sessions, we slow down and trace how life’s turning points have reshaped your relationship to intimacy, connection, and pleasure.
We’ll explore your intimate needs, desires, and what brings you pleasure. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, or somewhere in between, you don’t need to know exactly what you want to work on before we begin. Just bring your curious self.
Together, we’ll work to uncover the version of intimacy that feels authentic to who you are now.
These 60-minute online sessions are for couples who wish to reconnect, rekindle pleasure, and rediscover their needs and desires during/after life transitions that changed their relationship to and understanding of intimacy.
We focus on improving communication, repairing after conflict, facing disappointment, and rebuilding both emotional and physical intimacy.
I work with couples who are willing to slow down, get curious about what lies beneath the surface, and have a desire to (re)turn to intimacy that feels authentic and fulfilling for both partners.
These online sessions are for anyone - single, partnered, or somewhere in between - who wants to slow down and trace how life's turning points have reshaped their relationship to intimacy, connection, and pleasure. Whether you're coming as an individual or with a partner, we get curious about what lies beneath the surface: your needs, desires, what feels good, what's shifted, and what you're longing to return to. For individuals, this might mean reconnecting with your own body, unpacking patterns, or understanding attachment styles that keep showing up in relationships, or simply rediscovering what intimacy, pleasure, and closeness mean to you now. For couples, the sessions will often require us to look closely at communication patterns, repair after conflict, face disappointment, and rebuild emotional and physical intimacy together.
You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what you want to work on. I invite you to bring your curious self. Together, we'll uncover the version of intimacy that feels authentic to who you are now.
Kindly note: Payment is due at the time of booking via credit/debit card or PayPal. Sessions are self-funded and not covered by health insurance. Cancellations or rescheduling require at least 24 hours' notice by email - cancellations within 24 hours are eligible for a full refund; after that, a 50% refund applies.
I recognise that this work isn't always financially accessible. Limited sliding-scale spots are available, so please don't hesitate to reach out. University students are also welcome to enquire about reduced rates.
What I bring into our sessions
somatic awareness and a trauma-empowered approach that supports self-regulation and deeper intimacy
a sex-positive mindset that helps heal shame around desire and pleasure
a belief that intimacy is a skill that can be learned through awareness and practice
an empathetic, curious presence that makes room for vulnerability and complexity
15 years of academic expertise in how culture and societal messages shape intimacy, desire, and pleasure
lived experience with intercultural relationships and life transitions that continue to reshape my own relationship to intimacy, desire, and pleasure
Coaching with me is collaborative, relational, and tailored to your pace, and it's not a substitute for therapy or mental health care. Using my PACED approach, I work somatically and experientially to help attune to your body's wisdom around emotions, needs, and patterns in intimacy, attachment, and connection.
Together we explore desire, boundaries, and pleasure with curiosity instead of shame, build the skills of better communication and repair after conflict, and rediscover what authentic connection and a fulfilling sex life actually feel like for you - not who you used to be.
What coaching with me looks like
Here is my invitation for you:
To Slow Down. To Pause.
To Reflect. To Rediscover.
To Reconnect. To Rekindle.