(Re)turning to intimacy…at your own pace.
Sex, Intimacy, & Relationship coaching for individuals & couples navigating life transitions
This space might be for you if you want to find your way back to intimacy, connection, and pleasure during or after life transitions, or turn toward them with curiosity for the first time.
Plans unravel. Bodies transform. Relationships rupture. Loss happens.
Life transitions don't just change your circumstances. They quietly change your relationship to yourself, to intimacy, and to the people you love most.
What if intimacy could feel more nourishing and authentic? Connection a little less complicated? Desire and pleasure something to explore with curiosity rather than avoid?
This is what I'm here to explore with you, gently, and at your pace.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Hi, I’m Dr. Pallabi Roy.
I’m a Somatica®- trained sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, with a PhD in anthropology, and the founder of (Re)turning to Intimacy. Based in Heidelberg, Germany, I currently offer online sessions only.
I bring a sex-positive and trauma empowerment lens, combining somatic and experiential practices with talk-based coaching to support individuals and couples in reconnecting with themselves, their partner, and rediscovering intimacy, desire, and pleasure that feel authentic to who they are now.
This relational work and how I show up in our sessions are also shaped by my own experiences of navigating shifts in pleasure and intimacy.
Learn more about me here.
People of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, cultural backgrounds, and neurodiverse identities are welcome here.
I invite you to start with a 30-minute free Discovery Call and see what feels possible from there. Let’s begin exactly where you are.
I can help you if…
You feel emotionally or physically disconnected from yourself or your partner and are not sure how to find your way back
You feel like you are “too much” or “never enough” in relationships, or you and your partner feel more like roommates, caught in the same conflicts, and the “spark” has quietly faded
You long for intimacy, connection, and pleasure that feels nourishing and authentic to who you are now
Intimacy, desire, and pleasure feel unfamiliar or harder to access after a life transition(s), and if you recognize yourself in any of the following:
If any of this resonates, you're in the right place.
“Working with Pallabi felt deeply safe...She created a space that was calm, non-judgmental, and genuinely supportive. ”
“Entering the world of somatic coaching with Pallabi transformed how I understand and listen to my body.”
“This work with Pallabi has not only supported my individual healing but has also made it easier for my partner and me to understand and navigate our emotional world together.”
pause.
feel.
return.
Our sessions will be guided by my PACED approach…
P: Presence
A: Attunement
C: Curiosity & Consent
E: Empathy
D: Deshamify
In using my PACED approach during our work together, we slow down, attune to your body, emotions, and words, and let clarity emerge rather than pushing you toward any quick fixes, solutions, or change. We move at a pace that feels safe and honest for you and us.